Remember when you were first dating and all his attention was on you? He couldn't seem to cuddle you enough, caress you enough and the whole time making it seem like sex was the last thing on his mind. He was so romantic! Silly girl, that was the most important thing on his mind! He could hardly wait to score. The male ego is to go along with any part of the program to get the final results..satisfying him sexually!!

The next step is to find satisfaction in all different types of sexual activities. The more the woman is willing to participate in his fantasy world, the happier he is. Women tend to want to Keep Her Man Happy and often crave for his acknowledgement of sexual satisfaction. This gives her the feeling of security. False security is normally the case!

Women, how long did it take you to see your man change? Was it weeks, months or were you fortunate enough to not see it for a year? Once the daily routine starts, was he not as cuddly, caring, or romantic? Did he seem to start focusing more on his job, friends and hobbies more? The age old complaint is that He Doesn't Talk To Me Anymore. Did this leave you with a feeling of loneliness? This is usually where the woman starts having self-doubt. Am I not as attractive? Am I gaining weight? Hello...have you even thought for one moment that you haven't necessarily changed. Quit feeling guilty. If women could get paid a salary for guilt, there would be a lot of very wealthy women!

Women, are you really aware of how much the man masturbates?  Whether the couple admits it or not both are doing it while waiting for the other to fulfill them sexually. That little thing called testosterone makes it where he can't seem to help himself, or shall we say, He does help himself! Often, you are not the one to blame. Conquering something or someone is just in his nature. Once he has accomplished the task of conquering he sometimes loses interest (and not necessarily love) and is on the alert for a new challenge. In the meantime, he finds it very satisfying to go into a fantasy world and take care of his own needs. Have you every wondered why some times he can shower in three minutes and other times it takes ten to fifteen minutes:..I don't think he is shaving his legs.

When communication ceases between a couple this can only lead to trouble. She craves the one on one attention and is a perfect candidate for a smooth talking companion. Someone that can again tell her how special she is, how beautiful and above all desirable. She doesn't necessarily find this man more attractive than her current partner- - - just more fulfilling of her feminine needs! After all, he doesn't ignore her, always has time to chat, does all the special little things that her current partner use to in the beginning of their relationship. Wake Up!! If you choose to end the current relationship for the new one, the vicious cycle would again raise its ugly little head and you can start this whole process again.